Why is my divorce taking so long?

Do you know that the average divorce process takes around 12 to 18 months? If you are in a divorce that has gone longer than 18 months, you may be wondering, “what’s the hold up?”

Our expert family law attorneys have compiled a list of the top reasons why divorce proceedings are extended, so you don’t end up making these same mistakes.

Not Knowing What You Want

If you and your spouse meet to make divorce agreements, you should have a well-thought-out plan for your priorities and non-negotiables. If you arrive without a concrete idea of what you’re wanting as an outcome of your divorce, it will prolong negotiations, and ultimately, the completion of your divorce.

Representing Yourself

This is a very common mistake that people make when getting divorced. You may think that it will save you money in legal fees, but representing yourself will bring unforeseen issues. Not being an attorney, unfamiliar with the legal process of divorce, will become a challenge when you need to know specifically which forms to file.

Not Listening to Your Lawyer

Much like representing yourself, not listening to your lawyer is unwise. A lawyer is skilled in family law and divorces. Your case is not the first time a lawyer has had to represent a client going through a divorce, so seek the guidance of your lawyer.

Our expert attorneys know that divorce can conjure up many emotions. Even if your emotions are telling you to go from a different path than your lawyer’s, listen to them.

Changing Your Mind on Agreements

This is self-explanatory, should you change your mind on agreements, you prolong the divorce since now you would have to take the time to create new agreements to replace the original ones. When negotiating with your spouse, you are bound to compromise to fit their demands. However, you must be entirely comfortable with these compromises. If you are not, it is likely the issue will resurface.

Going to Trial Over Issues Which Could Be Resolved Via Mediation

Litigation takes far more time than mediation. It’s a fact! Litigation involves you and your lawyer preparing a case, presenting it to the court, and then waiting for the judge’s ruling.

Mediation allows both parties to meet with an unbiased mediator that is there to facilitate conversation and discussion about contested issues. This way both parties can create agreements that are satisfactory in the divorce. However, mediation is not always the best option for couples that are unable to communicate effectively and come to an agreement. However, mediation is the best way to achieve a time-cheap path to divorce.

If you are struggling to find common ground in your divorce, call our expert family law attorneys to get a free consultation on your case today!

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